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Perfection is exhausting

  • Post author:Metiya
  • Post published:June 5, 2024
  • Post category:Healing/Musings
  • Post comments:2 Comments
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I used to be proud of being a perfectionist, but I don’t wanna do it anymore. Perfectionism hides fear, for me it was a fear of being rejected or abandoned…again.…

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