Skip to content
  • Home
  • About
  • Buy The Purpose Journal
  • Blog
  • Shop
  • Contact
Menu
  • Home
  • About
  • Buy The Purpose Journal
  • Blog
  • Shop
  • Contact
Instagram Youtube Facebook Tiktok Twitter Pinterest-p
Instagram Youtube Facebook Tiktok Twitter Pinterest-p
  • Home
  • About
  • Buy The Purpose Journal
  • Blog
  • Shop
  • Contact
Menu
  • Home
  • About
  • Buy The Purpose Journal
  • Blog
  • Shop
  • Contact

Why Do Abuse Survivors Stay Silent? What Real Survivors Told Me

  • Post author:Metiya
  • Post published:July 10, 2026
  • Post category:Healing
  • Post comments:0 Comments

Statistic from CHILD USA Many people ask 'why do abuse survivors stay silent?' But often we don't think about the circumstances and situations that occur around abuse. Did you know…

Continue ReadingWhy Do Abuse Survivors Stay Silent? What Real Survivors Told Me

Why I Shared My Story: Breaking the Silence on Abuse

  • Post author:Metiya
  • Post published:June 28, 2026
  • Post category:Healing
  • Post comments:0 Comments

This post is about finding freedom, choosing your peace and the cost of silence...

Continue ReadingWhy I Shared My Story: Breaking the Silence on Abuse

Welcome Back: Healing, Homecoming & Hope

  • Post author:Metiya
  • Post published:May 17, 2026
  • Post category:Healing
  • Post comments:2 Comments
Read more about the article Welcome Back: Healing, Homecoming & Hope

Sometimes you make a decision and sometimes life makes a decision for you. Regardless, I find myself sitting here before my computer, staring at the blank page before me, back…

Continue ReadingWelcome Back: Healing, Homecoming & Hope

Father’s Day for the fatherless and broken-hearted

  • Post author:Metiya
  • Post published:June 16, 2024
  • Post category:Healing/Musings
  • Post comments:0 Comments
Read more about the article Father’s Day for the fatherless and broken-hearted
Father's Day for the fatherless

For anyone triggered by Father’s Day I know today is a hard day. I understand the pain and questions that can arise on Father's day for those with absent dads, late dads or dads you never know...

Continue ReadingFather’s Day for the fatherless and broken-hearted

Perfection is exhausting

  • Post author:Metiya
  • Post published:June 5, 2024
  • Post category:Healing/Musings
  • Post comments:2 Comments
Read more about the article Perfection is exhausting

I used to be proud of being a perfectionist, but I don’t wanna do it anymore. Perfectionism hides fear, for me it was a fear of being rejected or abandoned…again.…

Continue ReadingPerfection is exhausting

Why do we never know when people are hurting until it’s too late?

  • Post author:Metiya
  • Post published:February 21, 2024
  • Post category:Lifestyle
  • Post comments:0 Comments
Read more about the article Why do we never know when people are hurting until it’s too late?

I’ve learnt something about a broken heart. It’s easier to conceal than a broken leg. Many people don’t see it because it’s not bleeding…

Continue ReadingWhy do we never know when people are hurting until it’s too late?

AMAZON PRIME DAY 2023 BEST BUYS

  • Post author:Metiya
  • Post published:July 12, 2023
  • Post category:Lifestyle
  • Post comments:0 Comments
Read more about the article AMAZON PRIME DAY 2023 BEST BUYS
Amazon Prime Day 2023 Best buys

A very quick post bringing you the Amazon Prime Day 2023 Best buys! From personal care to home bargains check it out....

Continue ReadingAMAZON PRIME DAY 2023 BEST BUYS

Join My newsletter

  • Let’s be friends on Instagram!
No one is you, and that’s YOUR power ✨💗 Get to kno No one is you, and that’s YOUR power ✨💗 Get to know me - the 2026 version! Coz chile doing all this was not part of my ten year plan, and 5 years ago I definitely would have posted a different version of my story. 

But I thank God for his grace. He sees something beautiful even where you see something broken. He’s the only one who can take what life has broken and make it even BETTER than the original❤️‍🩹 

If you’re going through dark days now just know that the rain doesn’t last always and you don’t have to walk it alone. Hit my link in bio for a free guide on How To Start Your Healing Journey and let’s share this walk together ✨ 

TELL ME ONE THING YOU’RE PROUD OF YOURSELF FOR?? I know there are lotsssss 🥰🥰🥰❤️. 

#healingjourney #healingcommunity #blackgirlhealing #faithandhealing #healingoutloud
Do you feel guilty for resting? I can relate babe Do you feel guilty for resting? I can relate babe 🥹 For SO long I felt soo bad tbh I still struggle with feeling guilty from time to time for prioriting my rest.

Learning boundaries with yourself and then enforcing them with others can be one the most difficult things you’ll ever do esp as an (ex or current) people pleaser 😩

One thing that helps me is remembering that I wasn’t put  on this earth just to be a productivity machine. Your value doesn’t come from doing, doing, doing all the time. You are a human BEING and resting is a part of being. 

So next time you start feeling guilty  remind yourself that rest is a PART of your human experience! You need it to function in the totality of who God designed you to be🙌🏿

So schedule some rest in and save this for next time you start feeling guilty again 🥰 

My book YOU ARE ENOUGH is available on Amazon - link in bio 💕 have a GREAT night 😴 💤 

#youareenough #restisproductive #healingjourney #selfcare #journal
Do you ever look at yourself and realise that you’ Do you ever look at yourself and realise that you’ve become the person that your younger self needed? 🥰

Hmmm feels good don’t it? Something so freeing about deciding to do it for YOU, to choose YOU, to LOVE you and to care for YOU no matter what. 

It’s never too late or too deep to learn how to love yourself the way you always wanted someone else to. 

My free How To Start Your Healing Journey guide is linked in my bio on Metiyachique.com/heal 💖 meet me there to walk this journey to being your whole best self together xx 
Happy Sunday Huns 🤗 let me know if you got my newsletter if not sign up nawwwwww 🥳

#innerchildhealing #grwmreels #glowupjourney #healingjourney #outfitofthedaybabe 

Dress: @whitefoxboutique 
@maybelline fit me primer 
@elfcosmeticsuk brightening corrector dark pink 
@narsissist foundation Macao 
@savers_hb sun-kissed body shimmer (Dupe for nuxe!)
@maccosmetics spiked lip pencil + twig lipstick 
@fentybeauty gloss bomb fu$$y 
@nyxcosmetics matte finish setting spray 
@fashionnova earrings
And we always leave with our smile too 🥰 #relatabl And we always leave with our smile too 🥰 #relatable #dating #explorepage
Finally sharing Part 2 of my Weekend of Weddings i Finally sharing Part 2 of my Weekend of Weddings in Zambia vlog! 🥳🇿🇲✨

It’s taken me months to sit and edit, but I think it was worth the wait right?😬

I had the best time celebrating my girls’ beautiful wedding ceremonies over Easter. It was such a special weekend filled with so much love, laughter, and unforgettable memories🤍

I hope you’ve enjoyed these Zambia vlogs as much as I’ve enjoyed sharing them with you! Let me know in the comments if you’d love to see more travel content and you learnt something new! 🥰💚🧡🖤

#ZambianWedding #AfricanWedding #WeddingVlog #TravelCreator #visitzambia BlackTravel ExploreAfrica DestinationWedding WeddingGuest ContentCreator TravelDiaries AfricanCulture ZambiaTravel WeddingSeason VlogLife TravelReels MemoriesMade LoveCelebrated
#loveyourslf #healing #softgir #loveyourslf #healing #softgir
Follow on Instagram
Instagram Youtube Facebook Tiktok Twitter Pinterest-p

© Copyright 2021 • Metiya Chique

  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of Service
×
×

Cart