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  • June 3, 2016
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30 Things I Would Tell My Younger Self

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Because you really deserve it. 🌻💛 It’s normal to Because you really deserve it. 🌻💛

It’s normal to want companionship, support, family, a partner or a community that shows up for you. But sometimes we pour so much of ourselves into others, hoping that one day it will be poured back into us.

And sometimes we don’t even give with the expectation of receiving anything in return. We give because that’s simply who we are. We love, we care, we show up. Give and give, while others take and take.

But at some point, you have to replenish yourself too.

Your humanity is just as important as everyone else’s. Your needs matter. You need love, care, kindness and gentleness too in order to thrive and grow.

And the truth is, no matter how much you pour into someone, they may never pour into you in the same way. Maybe they can’t. Maybe they don’t know how. Maybe they simply don’t want to. But it isn’t your job to figure that out or make them change.

The turning point comes when you choose you.

When you realise that you don’t have to wait for someone else to give you permission to love yourself well.You can start today by choosing yourself, caring for yourself & learning to see yourself as someone worthy of kindness and gentleness regardless of how you’ve been treated in the past or what you’ve been through.

I think you are so special and I can’t wait for you to start seeing yourself as you really are!🤗

Come join me, let’s walk this healing journey together. Check out my free healing resources through the link in my bio and sign up to join our healing community💖 You are so deserving darling. 🥰🌷

#healingjourney #selflove #reels #explore #selfworth
Thank you God for my life. Thank you for my body, Thank you God for my life. 
Thank you for my body, my mind and soul. 
Thank you for thinking of me even before you created the world. And for making me, me🥹 
You have sustained me through several tribulations that should have destroyed me. 
You give me everything I need, MORE than what I want and beyond what I deserve. 
Glory and Honour to the King of kings and 
Happy birthday to me, the Princess 🥰👸🏿💕💖🎂

#birthdaygirl #TiyaDay
I’ve been reading the story of Joseph lately and I I’ve been reading the story of Joseph lately and I was reminded that NOTHING that God allows to happen in your life is an accident! He has a beautiful plan and purpose for you and everything is working for your good! 🤗 YOU ARE ENOUGH! 

#happyFriday #purpose #reels
kinda chique of you to join our healing community😍 kinda chique of you to join our healing community😍 

Of course I had to jump on this trend and represent my healing girls❤️‍🩹 

Whatever you’ve been through, healing is possible for you. If you don’t know where to start or just need a friend along the way-I’ve created a FREE Healing Guide with 5 things that helped me start my healing journey and go from surviving to thriving. 

It’s time to start believing and walking in the purpose God has planned for you because there’s only one YOU!💖 

Link in my bio to download the free guide & get started 🥰 
Kinda chic to start your healing journey 

#healingjourney #innerchildhealing #breakinggenerationalcurses #faithandhealing 
#youareenough
The only time you should look back is to see how f The only time you should look back is to see how far you’ve come 🥰🌱💕 
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Who told you what your value is?👀 Do you remembe Who told you what your value is?👀 

Do you remember how you first learnt to value yourself? This healing journey has had me unpacking everything, starting with the idea of where self-worth comes from…

Many of us haven’t heard the phrases ‘you’re worthy’ or ‘you’re so deserving’ as we were growing up but it doesn’t mean that you are not those things. If nobody taught you your worth as a child, it’s not too late to teach yourself. 

Hearing it and believing it are two different things though, and I’m speaking from experience coz woiiii learning to see yourself how God sees you (precious, fragile, tender, irreplaceable, PRICELESS 💎) that takes real work esp if you’ve had a difficult childhood or experienced any kind of trauma like me. 

But I’ve taken everything I’ve learnt and written down what has helped me to learn in my free guide: 5 Steps to Start Your Healing Journey 🌱 it’s linked in my bio at metiya.com/heal 

My book: YOU ARE ENOUGH - The Purpose Journal is on Amazon 💖  What ways do you remind yourself that you are enough? Tell me one thing you do in the comments. Someone needs to hear it 🤗 have a lovely day xxx 

#healingjourney #blackwomenhealing #selfworthjourney #youareenough #loveyourself
No one is you, and that’s YOUR power ✨💗 Get to kno No one is you, and that’s YOUR power ✨💗 Get to know me - the 2026 version! Coz chile doing all this was not part of my ten year plan, and 5 years ago I definitely would have posted a different version of my story. 

But I thank God for his grace. He sees something beautiful even where you see something broken. He’s the only one who can take what life has broken and make it even BETTER than the original❤️‍🩹 

If you’re going through dark days now just know that the rain doesn’t last always and you don’t have to walk it alone. Hit my link in bio for a free guide on How To Start Your Healing Journey and let’s share this walk together ✨ 

TELL ME ONE THING YOU’RE PROUD OF YOURSELF FOR?? I know there are lotsssss 🥰🥰🥰❤️. 

#healingjourney #healingcommunity #blackgirlhealing #faithandhealing #healingoutloud
Do you feel guilty for resting? I can relate babe Do you feel guilty for resting? I can relate babe 🥹 For SO long I felt soo bad tbh I still struggle with feeling guilty from time to time for prioriting my rest.

Learning boundaries with yourself and then enforcing them with others can be one the most difficult things you’ll ever do esp as an (ex or current) people pleaser 😩

One thing that helps me is remembering that I wasn’t put  on this earth just to be a productivity machine. Your value doesn’t come from doing, doing, doing all the time. You are a human BEING and resting is a part of being. 

So next time you start feeling guilty  remind yourself that rest is a PART of your human experience! You need it to function in the totality of who God designed you to be🙌🏿

So schedule some rest in and save this for next time you start feeling guilty again 🥰 

My book YOU ARE ENOUGH is available on Amazon - link in bio 💕 have a GREAT night 😴 💤 

#youareenough #restisproductive #healingjourney #selfcare #journal
Do you ever look at yourself and realise that you’ Do you ever look at yourself and realise that you’ve become the person that your younger self needed? 🥰

Hmmm feels good don’t it? Something so freeing about deciding to do it for YOU, to choose YOU, to LOVE you and to care for YOU no matter what. 

It’s never too late or too deep to learn how to love yourself the way you always wanted someone else to. 

My free How To Start Your Healing Journey guide is linked in my bio on Metiyachique.com/heal 💖 meet me there to walk this journey to being your whole best self together xx 
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Finally sharing Part 2 of my Weekend of Weddings i Finally sharing Part 2 of my Weekend of Weddings in Zambia vlog! 🥳🇿🇲✨

It’s taken me months to sit and edit, but I think it was worth the wait right?😬

I had the best time celebrating my girls’ beautiful wedding ceremonies over Easter. It was such a special weekend filled with so much love, laughter, and unforgettable memories🤍

I hope you’ve enjoyed these Zambia vlogs as much as I’ve enjoyed sharing them with you! Let me know in the comments if you’d love to see more travel content and you learnt something new! 🥰💚🧡🖤

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Do you feel at home within yourself? Coming back Do you feel at home within yourself? 

Coming back home to me has meant taking time to learn how to build peace within myself. To be comfortable with the imperfect, the mistakes and the flaws but also to accept myself and my story without shame. 

Because you are only free when you learn to love yourself fully.

And that journey for you might look different to mine, but I believe that it’s a journey we all need to take because it will change your life. 

How you live your life, how you take care of yourself and how you contribute to the world is shaped by how you view and love yourself. And that all starts with choosing to heal. 

Are you on a journey to finding home within yourself? Let’s go together 🥰 join me on metiyachique.com and read my blog on healing and coming home linked in bio 💚 

#blackgirlhealing #healingjourney #selflove #womenwhoblog #blackwriters 

Are you on a journey to building home within yourself?  Join me on metiyachique.com and read my first blog on coming home linked in bio 💚
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Hotel review now up on metiyachique.com - link in bio 🩶 
#birthdaygirl #cyprus #travelgram #hotelreview #ayianapa
Because you really deserve it. 🌻💛 It’s normal to Because you really deserve it. 🌻💛

It’s normal to want companionship, support, family, a partner or a community that shows up for you. But sometimes we pour so much of ourselves into others, hoping that one day it will be poured back into us.

And sometimes we don’t even give with the expectation of receiving anything in return. We give because that’s simply who we are. We love, we care, we show up. Give and give, while others take and take.

But at some point, you have to replenish yourself too.

Your humanity is just as important as everyone else’s. Your needs matter. You need love, care, kindness and gentleness too in order to thrive and grow.

And the truth is, no matter how much you pour into someone, they may never pour into you in the same way. Maybe they can’t. Maybe they don’t know how. Maybe they simply don’t want to. But it isn’t your job to figure that out or make them change.

The turning point comes when you choose you.

When you realise that you don’t have to wait for someone else to give you permission to love yourself well.You can start today by choosing yourself, caring for yourself & learning to see yourself as someone worthy of kindness and gentleness regardless of how you’ve been treated in the past or what you’ve been through.

I think you are so special and I can’t wait for you to start seeing yourself as you really are!🤗

Come join me, let’s walk this healing journey together. Check out my free healing resources through the link in my bio and sign up to join our healing community💖 You are so deserving darling. 🥰🌷

#healingjourney #selflove #reels #explore #selfworth
Thank you God for my life. Thank you for my body, Thank you God for my life. 
Thank you for my body, my mind and soul. 
Thank you for thinking of me even before you created the world. And for making me, me🥹 
You have sustained me through several tribulations that should have destroyed me. 
You give me everything I need, MORE than what I want and beyond what I deserve. 
Glory and Honour to the King of kings and 
Happy birthday to me, the Princess 🥰👸🏿💕💖🎂

#birthdaygirl #TiyaDay
I’ve been reading the story of Joseph lately and I I’ve been reading the story of Joseph lately and I was reminded that NOTHING that God allows to happen in your life is an accident! He has a beautiful plan and purpose for you and everything is working for your good! 🤗 YOU ARE ENOUGH! 

#happyFriday #purpose #reels
kinda chique of you to join our healing community😍 kinda chique of you to join our healing community😍 

Of course I had to jump on this trend and represent my healing girls❤️‍🩹 

Whatever you’ve been through, healing is possible for you. If you don’t know where to start or just need a friend along the way-I’ve created a FREE Healing Guide with 5 things that helped me start my healing journey and go from surviving to thriving. 

It’s time to start believing and walking in the purpose God has planned for you because there’s only one YOU!💖 

Link in my bio to download the free guide & get started 🥰 
Kinda chic to start your healing journey 

#healingjourney #innerchildhealing #breakinggenerationalcurses #faithandhealing 
#youareenough
The only time you should look back is to see how f The only time you should look back is to see how far you’ve come 🥰🌱💕 
New blog post on Metiyachique.com ✨ Link in bio x 

#healingjourney #blackgirlhealing #selfworth #selflove #innerhealing
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