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33 years, 33 years, can you relate to a life like 33 years, 33 years, can you relate to a life like this? 

There is someone who wants to comfort you, to bless you, to pour into you what others have been taking. He wants to break the chains that bind you! To remove the fog that stops you seeing WHO you really are! 

To LOVE you even where you cannot love yourself. Let him kiss your wounds. Those dark corners you hide from everyone. He is not scared to go there and sit with you. 

You have to earn so much in this world, your titles, shelter, beauty, respect, admiration, followers, friends, spouses. But you don’t have to earn Jesus love ❤️ 

There is nothing you can do to make him love you less. 
There is nothing you can do to make him love you more. 

As a SAbuse survivor; shame, guilt, trauma and fear tried to hold me down for almost my entire life. It NEARLY won - it should have won, but praise God that in the midnight hour - he always shows up! When it’s the darkest, is when he shines brightest! 

When you are most alone, is when he holds you the closest. 

Jesus didn’t just die for you, he spent 33 years on this earth to SET YOU FREE from every demonic principality, power and potency over your life!!! 

There was nothing beautiful or majestic about his appearance, nothing to attract us to him. He experienced every heartbreak, abuse, loss that you & I go through today so that we could be VICTORIOUS! 

Won’t you claim your victory today? Won’t your claim your healing? 🥹❤️‍🩹 

Isaiah 53:5 But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him. 

And by His stripes we are HEALED❤️‍🩹

‭‭#morethanaconqueror #survivortothriver #healingwithjesus #christiansofinstagram #jesussaves #blackgirlhealing #eastermessage #heisrisen✝️ #jesusheals #jesussavesbro #aprilsaawarenessmonth #saawareness #survivorsunite #healingfromabuse #healingispossible #healingjourney #healingthesoul
So I threw a surprise birthday party for my mum in So I threw a surprise birthday party for my mum in Zambia! 🇿🇲 it was stressful as I was in UK and planning virtually with very little help 😩 but I went ahead because my mum has never had a party or wedding or something to celebrate her before. 

My family has also suffered so much loss. I was born in 90s Zambia so HIV/AIDS endemic & malaria wiped out my family. All I remember is funerals and people dying in my childhood so I wanted to change the narrative. The last time we had a party was before my Aunty Gertrude passed away in 2000, she was my mum’s youngest sister and would have been so proud of me for throwing a celebration for her sister coz that’s exactly what she would do 🥹🤍🕊️

There’s nothing like meeting together with family and just celebrating. I didn’t ask my relatives for anything except to show up and I’m so grateful they did because my mum is the first born and has truly mothered everyone in her family at some point 😅 she also raised me single-handedly and adopted my brother (Aunty Gertrude’s son) when my Aunty died so she was raising two of us ALONE in UK, imagine!! We didn’t even have a church community or something to help. I felt so guilty even adding more stress and probably that’s why I didn’t share about my about abuse and assault until 2024. Because mum worked soo hard for us, sacrificed and tried her best to ensure we SURVIVED. 

We praise God for being our Father & husband. He has provided, protected and poured healing into us, so that we can now go from survivors to THRIVERS! This is a cause for celebration! That even in the darkest nights, there comes the bright morning sun ☀️ and ultimately, Jesus has died so that we can have sunshine & life FOREVER in heaven with him 🙏🏿 

So here is to joy, to more celebrations & to the gift of everlasting life in Christ Jesus! ❤️ 

Happy birthday mummy!🥳🎂🎉 @suwaview 

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Friend pls go to therapy 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏🏿

#healingjourney #survivortothriver #blackgirlhealing #comedymemesdaily #humour #ifyoudontlaughyoullcry #morethanaconqueror #kellyclarksonshow #kellyclarkson
Doechii is a GENIUS! I love her, her testimony an Doechii is a GENIUS! I love her,  her testimony and creativity! The joy of her song inspired me to record my testimony!😭THANK YOU @doechii ❤️❤️

I just finished a bible study and Anxiety was playing in the background and I was thinking about ALL that God has done: 
It’s my TESTIMONY - Jesus has set me FREE!!!😭 

Even though I’m a writer, not a singer, I wanted to express my joy and just be HAPPY & FREE!!!🥳

No matter what it looks or sounds like this 2025, trust and believe that WE HAVE THE VICTORY yeaaa 🙌🏿💃🏿☀️ 

#anxietydoechi #anxietyremix #jesussaves #christiantiktok #doechii #anxietydance #anxietyremix #jesusheals 
#christiansofinstagram #dancechallenge #dancechallenges #tiktokdance #trendingaudio #doechiichallenge #anxietyfree #dancechallenges  #willsmith #freshprinceofbelair @doechii @willsmith @desyired
The longer YOU keep wanting to be like everyone el The longer YOU keep wanting to be like everyone else, the longer it will take you to see just how incredible and wonderful YOU are. 

Your journey & story are unique and remarkable. No one else has been through what you have and overcome the things you have, to be here today. 

You are worth healing for & choosing ✨

Follow to join a community that celebrates & cheers you along YOUR JOURNEY to loving you 🤗🌱 

#healingjourney #selfcompassion #healingprocess #selfgrowth #survivortothriver #healingfromtrauma
#morethanaconqueror #selflovetips #blackgirlhealing
Healing from trauma is one of the hardest things y Healing from trauma is one of the hardest things you’ll ever have to do. Please be kind to yourself ❤️ some days are good, some days are tough but you’re still worthy of kindness, patience & love regardless of how you feel about your progress. 

I’m so proud of you for even starting this journey coz many people don’t, it’s easier to bury pain sometimes. It takes real bravery and courage to face your wounds and not run away. So please remember your strength, intellect & wisdom which have allowed you to navigate life to this point with such heavy burdens. You have got here and still made room to love and care for others! 🥹 

Your healing journey will be unique to you and it’s not a sprint. One of the things that scared me the most in accepting my trauma was the fear that once I started unburying the pain it would take a lifetime for me to heal. But now I’m like SO WHAT? So what if it takes a lifetime to heal? 

You’re worth it! Joy is worth it! A life filled with purpose and self-love is worth healing for. You might even help someone else along your way 🤗 

Deep breaths, one day at a time, be TOO honest with your therapist (LOOOOL I KNOW) and do your daily affirmations I’ve recorded and shared mine for you on my podcast in bio x Subscribe to my Spotify or YouTube to get new uploads 💗 

Sending you love & light 🫂 xxx MC #morethanaconqueror 

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